I moved to Australia at 27 with a family back home depending on me. Five things carried me through the hardest year abroad, and here is the honest list.

Ketan Shetye
15 July 2026 ยท 5 min read
I moved to Australia at 27 on a tight budget, with a family back home who were depending on me. Older than most students, an introvert, rebuilding a whole life from zero. The first year was harder than anyone warned me it would be.
Everyone who plans the same move asks me the same thing: what advice would you give? They want visa tips, money tips, the best city. The honest answer is none of that. This post is the real survival list, the five things that actually made it easier, from the money runway to the study mistake that cost me twice.
Most people obsess over the parts that sort themselves out. The visa gets approved. You find a city. You figure out the money. Those are the easy problems, and they are the ones every guide covers.
The hard part is the first year, and it is the part that quietly breaks people. A bad start compounds: you burn your savings, panic into the wrong job, let your grades slip, isolate yourself, and by month three you are googling flights home. Getting these five things right early is the difference between a rough start and a wasted year.
This is for you if:
If I could hand one thing to the version of me who landed here, it would be a bigger buffer. Aim for around three months of living costs before you arrive. Money panic is the thing that makes every other decision worse. Scared people take the wrong job, the wrong house, the wrong risk. A buffer buys you calm, and calm is what lets you choose well when it matters most.
Most people wait until they feel "settled" to look for work. By then months are gone. I started applying and networking almost immediately, and I still sent 50+ applications before things clicked. The network you build early, classmates, seniors, the people one year ahead of you, is the one that eventually hands you your first real role. Job hunting is slow, so start it while everything else is still slow too.
This is the one I learned the hard way. During my Master's I failed a unit and had to retake it, paying the tuition for that subject again out of my own part-time earnings. Then it got worse. I had to retake it over the summer trimester, the same window international students often expect to work more hours during scheduled course breaks. Because I was enrolled in the retake, my break did not count, so my work hours stayed capped while friends worked full-time. I paid more and earned less, at the same time. Whether a break counts as unlimited hours depends on your enrolment, so confirm your own with Home Affairs. A failed unit costs you twice. Do not let a part-time shift tank a grade.
Mental and physical, both. The move is physically exhausting and emotionally heavier than anyone tells you. I am an introvert, and rebuilding a social life from zero in a new country was its own quiet struggle. The grind means nothing if you burn out alone. Sleep, move, eat like a person, and treat your health as the thing that makes everything else possible, not the thing you trade away for it.
The most important one. The right circle is what actually helps you grow here. Good people share the job lead, fix the resume, and talk you out of booking the flight home in month three. I would not have lasted the hard months without a few of them. Choose that circle on purpose.
Two years later, that same slow rebuild is what funded my parents' first international trip, paid for entirely by my own earnings. Month three felt like a mistake. It was supposed to.
Setting up your job hunt from week one?
Two of these five (the runway and landing that first job) are where most people stall. I run 1-on-1 Get Hired in Australia sessions for international graduates. We rebuild your resume, sharpen your targeting, and get your job search moving before the months slip away.
The five things above are the mindset. Here is how to actually sequence them.
Build the runway first. Three months of living costs is what would have kept me calm on arrival, though your number depends on your own expenses. Then start your resume before you land, not after, so you can apply in week one instead of week ten.
Apply and network from day one. Send more applications than feels comfortable, and say yes to the coffee, the classmate group, the alumni message. Set your study routine early so a part-time shift never costs you a grade. This is the month that sets the tone for the whole year.
Guard the three things that keep you standing: your grades, your health, and your circle. Check in on all three regularly. When month three hits and it feels like a mistake, try not to judge the whole move by it. For me, it took about two years to turn around.
๐ Department of Home Affairs, Student visa (Subclass 500) work conditions: international students can work up to 48 hours per fortnight while their course is in session, with no limit during scheduled course breaks. immi.homeaffairs.gov.au
This is my personal experience plus general information on studying and working in Australia, not advice tailored to your situation. Visa conditions change, so confirm your own work rights with the primary source above or a MARA-registered agent.
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